Stars! :)

So we've started this new reward system with Anthony to try and get him to listen better. Ive created a chart with all the "chores" he's supposed to do such as brushing teeth, taking a shower, cleaning up his cars and his bedroom, reading a book with mommy or daddy things like that and when he gets it done he gets a star on his chart. Anybody have thoughts on this? So far it seems promising he's very excited about getting stars and I actaully got him into bed without having him throw a fit about it. I'm hoping it sticks cause it'll make things a lot easier while daddy is gone and its just mommy and he thinks mommy is a push over which lets face it I am. If he cries about it I don't make him do it or I let him get his way. So its my lil monster Ive created hehe and I figure he's still young enough that I can still correct this behavior before is becomes something more serious. Any thoughts and comments would be greatly welcomed :)

Back to Reality

So back to reality the honeymoon and wedding were amazing but it is now time to settle back down into the routine. My poor princess has a horrible diaper rash which is rather irritating as she's never had one before and I'm gone for 2 days and I come back and her butt is almost to the point of bleeding. I have to say Im extremely dissapointed in that hold situation.


Im about a week behind in school so I really need to buckle down and get to it or else I'll not be able to catch up and not do very well this semester. Hopefully all goes well and I can get everything done.


Dutch leaves Feb. 7th for basic and I have to say I'm a little sader than I thought Id be. I  mean I knew Id miss him but I was in the Army and know the Army life but I still can't help but want to start crying when I think about him not being here. It'll be ok though 4 months and we'll be back together. Good thing is he gets to bring his cellphone and we're getting the Sprint Evo's so we can video chat and he can see the kids and we can see him it'll be nice.


Anthony's birthday is coming up quick we were planning on doing his party before Dutch left but it  might have to be pushed back till his actual birthday and we'll just take Anthony ourselves somewhere to celebrate with Daddy before he leaves.


Thats about all thats new so I guess instead of blogging I should be doin school work hehe. SHhhh if you dont tell I wont either :)

T- 30 Mins :)

So in 30 minutes its gonna be offically my wedding day :) Yay! Super excited and nervous all at the same time. Its a little overwhelming lol. My mom flew in today and I'm so glad that her flight wasn't canceled because of the snow. We had our rehersal tonight and all I can say is I hope I don't fall on my face that'd be super embarressing to say the least. Still gotta pack the kids overnight bags since we're going to Orlando first thing Monday morning. Excited about that too. Dutch has been working so much I barely see him the break and time together will be nice. Ok well gotta get to it lol Wish me luck!

3 Days!

 



  So there's offically 3 days till the wedding and mostly everything is done. The flowers are done the cake is being picked up sunday morning. We pick up my dress tomorrow. Things seem to be pretty much in order. Today is also Dutch's bday so we're goin to dinner with his parents tomorrow. I started school again on monday thought the classes were gonna be easy. Haha they aren't but Im sure I'll live. Because of the snow in GA my mom might not be able to make it :( It really sucks but if that happens I've decided to have Anthony walk me down the aisle. He's gonna look so handsome in his outfit he's such a cute kid I know Im gonna have issues with the girls in a few years lol. Well I gotta go make a suprise for my love so I'll write more later.

T Minus 10 Days!!!!

So the wedding is in 10 days!!! Ahh its coming so quick! And still so much to do I went last night with Jill and we picked the most awesome ribbon ever for me to make the bouquets out of and I'm getting started on those today. My awesome MIL to be found the most amazing tie for the guys at JC Penny. I am in love with it. Everything is slowly falling into place :) My mom will be flying in next sat and I will be picking her up from TIA. Super excited! I wish my best friend Lucia could make it to the wedding but finances and time just cant allow it. But she has to be at the renewal of vows :) No choice in the matter lol  If anyone knows where to buy this elusive colored sand Id be most grateful I never thought itd be so hard to find. Strike that gonna be creative and make my own lol. Well both kids are up so this is all for now.

Trying Something New

So with a lot happening this year I figured Id give this a try. First off we just moved into our new apartment and Im in love its such a nice area and beautiful community its really amazing. Another big change thats happening is that Dutch and I are getting married in 15 days!! Its coming very fast and theres still a lot to do Im hoping everything works out well. Its just a small ceremony mostly for family. We plan to have a big wedding in about 3 or 4 years once we've gotten through are first duty station and are settled. Thats about it for now super tired and not that creative lol.